Showing posts with label affirmation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label affirmation. Show all posts

Friday, May 18, 2018

Why I'm a native American

I don’t know if I have any particular kind of ancestry, but I often claim to be “native American.”

Why? I do so when some institution is “surveying” so-called-race, which is a bogus concept to begin with. See 

Man's Most Dangerous Myth: The Fallacy of Race, by Ashley Montagu.


People say I should choose “White,” but I’m definitely not white. My skin is pinkish yellow, or yellowish pink, and it grows red and brown when I’m out in the sun. I can’t imagine why its color would be important to anyone, except maybe a fashion consultant.

So, when surveyed, I choose “native American (small n)” because I was definitely born in America, so I’m a native. It’s a protest. I would be proud to be a Native American (capital N), but as far as I know, I have no such ancestry.

An interesting sidelight. Years ago when the university insisted I make a “race” choice, they assured me that the information was completely confidential. A year later, when I returned from a trip out of town, I found a note on my desk from Russell Means, a prominent Native American who had visited the university.

I wondered why he would write a personal note to me, until I found out that the administration had sent him to see me, their token “Native American Professor.”

So much for confidentiality. So much for the trustworthiness of bureaucrats.


In such a world, I shall remain “native American,” and I hope Elizabeth Warren and other smart people follow my example. 

Monday, March 26, 2018

March Madness or December Dementia

Every March, the USA goes wild with something called "March Madness," a pair of college basketball tournaments. The format of the tournaments is called "single elimination," which means that candidate teams are dropped out of the tournament when they lose. Eventually, one team remains, and they are the "winners."

So, what is the overall effect of this type of tournament? The men's tournament starts with 64 of the best teams in the nation, and when all is done, 63 of them have become "losers." No matter how good their season's record may have been, they ended that season with a loss—something to remain on their minds until next year.

I enjoy watching March Madness, but I think it could be improved. At least, there could be another tournament with a much more satisfactory result. Here's how it would go:

First, we choose the 64 worst teams of the season. Then we pair them off to play one another. The winner of each game is dropped out of the tournament, and the losers are paired for the next round. 

This elimination of winners is continued until only one team remains. They are the winners of the tournament. And, notice, that every other team has ended their season with a victory. Doesn't that feel much better?

Now perhaps this sounds like a stupid idea, but in fact it's extremely popular in the business world. Managers devise award systems that select one or a few individuals (rarely teams) as "winners." In doing so, they have managed to make everyone else feel like "losers."

I guess the theory is the these "losers" will be motivated to work harder or smarter for the next award cycle, and I suppose that sometimes that happens. What I've seen, however, is quite the opposite. Most people respond to "losing" by losing their motivation in the next round.


I've noticed that many of these management awards are given at the end of each year. Maybe a few smart managers could come up with not a March Madness but a December Dementia system that would positively motivate all their employees.

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Sunday, July 23, 2017

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Just Tell Me What I Want - Sara Kravitz sarakravitz.com
Getting a Grip on Time - Productivity and Life Balance Made Easy - Robyn Pearce gettingagrip.com
Self-Love - Stephen Connor stephenconnor.org
Weinberg on Writing - Gerald M. Weinberg geraldmweinberg.com
The Reluctant Messenger - Stephen Connor stephenconnor.org
What is Your What? - Steve Olsher steveolsher.com
Wake Up Call - Thibaut Meurisse WhatisPersonalDevelopment.org
Online Business Productivity - Timo Kiander PracticalBliss.com
Agile Project Management For Busy Managers - Tony Riches tonyriches.com
Tackling Low Self-esteem Building Confidence and Self-Respect - Neil Thompson neilthompson.info
Get Your Money Where Your Mouth Is - David R. Portney kallistipublishing.com
People Centricity: The Incredible Power of Putting Other People First - Stephen Hewett kallistipublishing.com
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Running For My Life: From Zero to Ultramarathoner - Dragos Roua dragosroua.com
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Dear God How Can I Heal So That I May Love - Margaret Paul innerbonding.com
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Getting a Grip on Leadership - How to Learn Leadership Without Making All the Mistakes Yourself - Robyn Pearce gettingagrip.com
Sleep and Sleep Disorders - A Brief Introduction - Neil Thompson neilthompson.info
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